Life Skills - Effective Communication Skills

• Effective communication is defined as verbal speech or other method of relaying information that get a point across.
• Ego is barrier to communication.
• Communication is also express by emotion.
• Relationship also depend on:

A	B
Acceptable	Acceptable under some circumstances but not naturally acceptance
Love	Opposition
Affection	Jealousy
Respect	Disrespect
Trust	Mistrust

•  There is no matter of language. We can use emotion, expression.
• There is no matter about language there is bridge is important.
• We need table content (A) is forever.
• We need to connect with emotion:- बिना बोले समझ जाये।
• We should treat others the way we want to be treated.
• We live with relationship. सम्‍बंध में होना।
• We can communication in eyes.
• Trust and mistrust is not opposite. One is in other is out.
• Lake of trust is create mistrust.
• We need to improve our table content (A).
• Love, Affection, Respect, Trust are essential component of effective communication.
• Lack of emotion, we cannot create effective communication.
• Think of an occasion in the school/home when you lost your cool with some student/colleague/parent/support staff/relative.
• What made you lose you cool? What thoughts/assumptions/beliefs abated you to get into a mental state which is not naturally acceptable to you?

You can seek help from following
question/suggestions to address this question!!

• Doubt on the intention of the other.
  1. Poor Competence of the other.
  1. My Own poor competence to see beyond.
  1. My own irritation/Inner Disturbance/Reaction.
• We need improve and develop table content with (A).
• We work on our good intention.
• Intention - Every Human wants Happiness and Mutual Happiness throw IP Harmony as is Naturally Acceptable to Every Human.
• Competence – One is not ensuring Happiness and continuity of Mutual Harmony because of Wrong beliefs/Mind Conditioning or lack of Competence/Right understanding based on Reality.
• Every one need love, affection, respect and trust even child also.
• Respect every one. It may be express different way.
• What are the major factors for Lack of Mutual fulfillment in Relationship?

Lack
of Trust, Lack of Gratitude, lack of Affection, Lack of Respect.

Sincerely :- CBSE, CoE Trivandrum